About This Episode:
In this episode of “#WalkWithMe” I break down the Attraction Equation and share two fundamentals I’ve found consistent in attracting things not only into my own life, but into all the individuals I’ve come across whose high energy and vibe seem to always get them what they want.
Have you ever met somebody who seems to always have everything work out for them, as in the Midas touch? You might call it luck or energy. I call it “attraction.” I want to share two fundamentals that, based on my opinion and experience, I believe make up the Attraction Equation that can help us attract more of what we want into our own lives.
Attraction (vibe, charisma, energy) comes down to this equation:
Desire X Giving = Attraction
Let’s break this down.
Desire is our natural energy source. It’s our activator. Our ignition. The fire or fuel within us. And whether we admit it, we tend to respond to people based on their level of desire: their energy, their vibe. When it comes to our level of desire, two things matter:
- Clarity on what we really want.
- Willingness to go after it.
We can actually feel that desire from others.
If Desire is the ignitor, Giving is the navigator or guide. It throttles us—in the right direction to where we’re ‘meant to’ go. Giving can be chunked into two buckets: ‘giving energy’ or ‘receiving energy.’ Giving energy is authentically sharing, serving or contributing for the benefit of others before yourself. Receiving energy is about taking or focusing on a personal outcome. Attraction comes down to the amount of our giving energy, without worrying about what we get in return.
I believe that what you put out eventually comes back to you in some way, directly or indirectly. That is what attraction is all about.
Ask yourself: Am I giving without attachment purely for the service or benefit of others? Or, am I giving to get something tangible back to help with my own ego, insignificance or insecurity? Rate yourself on that one. Hopefully, this gets you to check in with yourself on your levels of desire and giving to ultimately attract what you want. This will equal your level of attraction where the world opens up, solutions present themselves and opportunities abound.
What is something you desire right now? And how bad do you want to go after it?
Mentions on the Show:
“Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill.